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Symposium in Four Parts: Ena, Duo, Tria, Tessera

Digital Photocollage | 2026 | The Closet Series — Behan

On the Nature of Gay Men Having Sex

The word symposium comes to us from the Greek: sympinein, to drink together. In Athens, the symposium was the occasion for music, for spoken poetry, for philosophical inquiry conducted among men who desired one another and did not find this remarkable. Plato set his great investigation of Eros there — not in a court, not in a temple, but at a dinner party, among bodies, among wine, among men who understood that desire and thought were not opposites.

We have forgotten this. Or rather, some have chosen to forget it.

Symposium in Four Parts returns to that original space. The suite — Ena, Duo, Tria, Tessera — is a reclamation of what has always been true: Gay men gather. Gay men desire. Gay men have sex.

A persistent canard in straight culture is that gay sexuality exists in abstraction — acknowledged in theory, invisible in fact. Some straight people will concede that gay men love one another. Far fewer can hold in their minds what that love looks like in physical form.

This is not a failure of imagination.

It is the error of a culture so conditioned by its own norm that variation of any kind is literally inconceivable — not wrong, simply unthinkable— self-willed blindness.

These collages do not explain themselves to that blindness. They do not soften their edges or redirect the eye. They proceed from the fact — radical only to those for whom it is radical — that gay men are fully sexual. That the body in desire is the body documented. That the symposium, in the original sense, never closed. It simply lost its servers.

Joshua Wolfe is present in this suite as performer and as figure — an adult man in full knowledge of his image, his mouth as instrument, his body of work.

Plato’s Symposium confirmed that gay men are real, and they do have sex — their desire, their bodies, their Eros — as simply evident. Religious institutions spent centuries dismantling that confirmation, that awareness of presence, replacing it with prohibition and reducing visibility to blindness. This suite of collages restores the truth of the presence of gay men in the most direct and unapologetic manner possible. Gay men exist. Gay men have sex. All is well with the world.

Resources

Plato. Symposium. Translated by Alexander Nehamas and Paul Woodruff. Hackett Publishing, 1989.